If it's like pulling teeth to get him to say anything, or you cannot find something to talk about, that's not a good sign for future dates or a potential relationship. But the fact is women have more respect for guys who have boundaries. Unless you want to deal with a girl who has major outbursts over tiny inconveniences, this kind of behavior is a definite red flag when dating. Learn how your comment data is processed. So be sure to take outside factors into account before rushing to any judgment. He never plans ahead. Dating partners on first dates don't split the bill; one person, usually the asker, will pay the bill.
Or does she have a revolving door of friends who come and go every couple of months?
10 Dating Red Flags to Help You Spot Mr. Wrong
Do any of these sound familiar? The biggest thing is how they treat you, if they can be mean, cold, distant or anything that hurts you when you are new to them it will only get worse as they get comfortable with you. Please, take a look at how many times this guy lets you down and stop making excuses for him. But the fact is women have more respect for guys who have boundaries. Sadly, you never get anything. Are you able to talk to this guy?